Words

Sometimes people make a comment a gesture without any thought thinking that it wont affect you in any sort of way,if only that was always true it annoying and sad that something that someone says can affect you so much that you cant think of anything else. Its annoying when you cant speak about it as its such a taboo subject .and thinking what you do you know its pathetic you know you shouldn't but oh you just cant help yourself thinking of all the if's buts and maybe's. 
Why you still entertain these thought is beyond you .... but alas there is nothing you can do 
So you feel sorry for yourself for a day or so then you dust your self down and forget about it what other choice do you 
have ? There is nothing you can do you have no contact and thats the best way so listen to a song that cheers you up and
concentrate on what you do have 


oooh what am i supposed to do
when i'm hooked so on you?
then i realise
that you're somebody else's guy


that day in september
i'm sure you can remember
that's when all this stuff hit the fan (that stuff - hit the fan)
you told me a lie
and you didn't have an alibi
but baby yet i still cared


ok maybe thats not the best song but for once music says exactly what you feel 


other songs that describe your life ?

I remember way back, way back when
I said I never wanna see your face again
'Cause you were loving, yes you're loving somebody else
And I knew, oh yes, I knew I couldn't control myself


And now they bring you back into my life again
And so I put on a face just like your friends
But I think you know, oh yes, you know what's going on
'Cause the feelings in me, oh yes, in me are burning strong


But I will never be your stepping stone
Take it all or leave me alone
I will never be your stepping stone
I'm standing upright on my own
Love G x 

A Girl should be two things Classy and Fabulous

- Coco Chanel

A night out for my friends birthday in a local night club really made me realize that girls feel that they are in constant competition with each other. 
We don't trust each other we don't particularly like other girls that aren't in our friendship group and even between friendship groups there is always a weaker link always jealousy over something someone has or maybe even who someone has girls will never be happy with what they have maybe its deep within our nature maybe its from when eve took that forbidden bite out of the apple. 
When a random girl shows you an act of kindness you think its strange even if its taking a picture of you in a club you wonder what their ulterior motive is. I think we need to realize that we are all on the same team how can we expect men to treat us nicely if we don't even treat each other nicely. 
We need to stop judging each other , girls should not start fights with other girls and see all other girls as the enemies i am one of the lucky ones i have the best set of friends that i could ask, but like every other girl i am sure i don't always play nice so from this day on its time to be nice to other girls we need to stop being jealous and malicious and start being classy and fabulous just like Coco would have wanted and who are we to argue with such a classy and fabulous lady?


Love G xx

Birthday Festivities

Yesterday it was my birthday I hung one more year on the line i should be depressed.My life's a mess but I'm having a Good time - Paul Simon

Well yesterday was not my birthday but this time last week, I was preparing for my celebrations , as we are always required to be dressed up to the nines on our birthdays i decided to get rid of this convention and chose to the horror of some attendees to have a dress code of fancy dress. The uni students embraced this with ease as every Wednesday is Dress up day. My friends from home however were thrown into a sudden panic. The theme was around the world and we had everyone from Obama to a leprechaun . From the little of the night i remember i'd say i was definitely a mess but i had a good time. 


Onto the actual costumes:


On a Continental flight with a very "senior" flight attendant crew, the pilot said, "Ladies and gentlemen, we've reached cruising altitude and will be turning down the cabin lights. This is for your comfort and to enhance the appearance of your flight attendants."


I can ensure you that with my choice of outfit it would have been completely improved if i were on said plane and the cabin lights were turned down however i was in 'Castle house' in a very classy 'Fever' outfit rather than leave it to your imagination i would like to enclose a photo for my case against the fashion police and show you that it was not all that bad. 

What would a flight attendant be without a captain , due to the minimal effort that boys put into fancy dress said capatain was of the female variety infact she also was 'birthday girl' you may be thinking that is a little late to mentioning that fact but in true spoiled brat style im not a big fan of sharing. 

The girl next to the captain is not Part of gypsy weddings she is in fact from Moulin rouge.

The rest of the Group made a very big effort and here is a picture of all the Girls.

Love G xx

Tears and happiness

So , yesterday I realised that some people just are not who you thought they are and as sad as it is I have decided not to care. I mean some people really need to let sleeping dogs lie what happened last year is in the past and that's where it should stay ( a concept that I know i struggled with but were only human after all) . So I am back to my usual happy self a days upset was a lot more than he's worth if you ask me !! 
So today I am concentrating on what I have realised that i do have. The best family in the world yes we argue and have our differences but when it counts we are there for each other and The best friends its when your upset and down you realise this I have the best girls in the world :) from home and university. 


So I am going to make the most of the week I have left :) buzzing for Will Grace and Karen to be reunited and cant wait to get to castle house. 


So today everyone should try to be happy even if its the last thing you feel like doing smile , sing scream just enjoy life love life because what more is there ? 

Happiness is: 
1. Falling in love. 
2. Laughing so hard your face hurts. 
3. A hot bath. 
4. No lines at the supermarket. 
5. A special glance. 
6. Getting mail. 
7. Taking a drive on a pretty road. 
8. Hearing your favourite song on the radio. 
9. Lying in bed listening to the rain outside. 
10. Hot towels fresh out of the dryer. 
11. Chocolate milkshake ... (or vanilla ... or strawberry!) 
12. A bubble bath. 
13. Giggling. 
14. A good conversation. 
15. The beach
16. Finding a 20-pound note in your coat from last winter. 
17. Laughing at yourself.
18. Eye contact with a hot member of the opposite sex.
19. Midnight phone calls that last for hours. 
20. Running through sprinklers. 
21. Laughing for absolutely no reason at all. 
22. Having someone tell you that you're beautiful/good looking. 
23. Laughing at an inside joke. 
24. Friends. 
25. Accidentally overhearing someone say something nice about you. 
26. Waking up and realizing you still have a few hours left to sleep. 
27. Your first kiss (either the very first or with a new partner). 
28. Making new friends or spending time with old ones. 
29. Playing with a new puppy. 
30. Having someone play with your hair. 
31. Sweet dreams. 
32. Hot chocolate. 
33. Road trips with friends. 
34. Swinging on swings. 
35. Making eye contact with a cute stranger. 
36. Family. 
37. Having your friends send you homemade cookies. 
38. Holding hands with someone you care about. 
39. Running into an old friend and realizing that some things (good or bad) never change. 
40. Watching the expression on someone's face as they open a much-desired present from you. 
41. Watching the sunrise. 
42. Getting out of bed every morning and being grateful for another beautiful day. 
43. Knowing that somebody misses you. 
44. Getting a hug from someone you care about deeply. 
45. Knowing you've done the right thing, no matter what other people think.

- Unknown

Its evident that the things in pink are the important things to me Family Friends and Dreams ....

Love G x

I NEED THIS IN MY LIFE !!!!

So today i thought i would write a post on my most coveted item at the moment.

1) Alma BB £790 - Available in 3 colours 2) Alma £1030 -  Available in 6 colours

 My most wanted item in the whole wide world (apart from world peace blah blah blah) has to be the Louis Vuitton Alma Bag. The above examples are the colours that i would go for while it is available in a vast range. There is also other types and Styles of the alma including patent Epi-leather.


Its not just me who celebrates the pure style and practicallity of the Alma 

Blake Lively 

Chiara Ferragni - Italian Fashion Blogger 'The Blonde Salad'

Leighton Meester - In set as Blair in Gossip Girl

Vanessa White - The Saturdays 

Geri Halliwell

Alma in a range of colours

So now I am going to devise a plan how i can get one of these pieces of art in my life. 


Love G x 

September resolution !

So last night i had a epiphany I am sick of everyone laughing when i announce that i am studying to someday become a lawyer. The reason behind their amusement is my extremely unique and somewhat unusual voice. I have a very strong accent (I am often told I sound just like Amy Childs...'oh shut up ') so have decided to do something about it by looking into voice coaching and accent softening I hope that this will improve my confidence and I am also going to try and join the debate society at university to gain more confidence when speaking.  As Eleanor Roosevelt said ; 

 Nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent. 

So no longer give anyone consent , make changes for yourself no one else
Love G x

Still Recovering

Leaving Girl Herself  - Dress From TopShop

A real hangover is nothing to try out family remedies on. The only cure for a real hangover is death. Said by a comedian .... nothing is funny about a hangover 

 So my fun over the weekend left me in a no fit state to do anything yesterday other than wallow in self pity while watching gossip girl.


Friday night was a lovely night spent in our local night club where we were given free bottles of belevedere just for going and a table. So a night that was meant to be an easy one with not alot of drinking quickly turned into a drunken haze .... oh well only live once.

Me - Dress From Monsoon Fusion - Cuff - Topshop 

Dress Aqua - Shoes Topshop

Dress Aqua - Shoes Zara 

Dress - Website 

Dress - Ella Tino

Dress - All saints - Shoes - Aldo

Saturday night we headed into the Westend to party at Kanaloa.
 I can honestly say we had an amazing time minus the terrible table service , and pure heat due to the fact that there is no Aircon ( we do live in the "1st century come on Kanaloa) This did not however stop us Girls having an amazing time and true to form Everyone Looked Lovely 


Love G x